Since the social security card reflects your new married name, I am wondering whether or not the IRS rejected your E-File! I think the IRS would automatically reject your E-file due to the name change associated with your SSN. I think you will find the IRS will reject the filing of this tax return and you would have to resubmit the tax return with the correct last name.
Also, relax, this happens quite frequently and the IRS does not penalize or audit taxpayers as a result of this. I recommend that you check the filing status of your tax return, and you may find that the tax return has been rejected due to matching error of SSN# and your last name. If that is the case, you can resubmit/e-File the tax return with the correct information.
If the return has been accepted then I would simply wait for the refund and you can track the timing of the tax refund by clicking the following link below. https://sa2.www4.irs.gov/irfof/lang/...fgetstatus.jsp